At no other time the differences in male and female are so visible and frustrating than when it involves our relationship with each other. Of course it is not quite as visible in the early stages when sexual attraction is at the forefront of the minds for both male and female. At this early stage it is easy to make allowances for our partner’s deficiencies or think it is something that we can live with.
When sexual attraction dwindles or the relationship itself has progressed to a stage when both partners are comfortable with each other and have to now resolve every day problems together it is then the differences are quite visible.
Speaking from the point of view of a woman, I know personally that women like to solves by communicating, sometimes women will discuss problems with a network of friends in order to figure things out. Men on the other hand, prefer to solve problems independently and once they believe it is solved, they won’t bring it up again.
Sometimes a problem is resolved in a man’s mind when it is nowhere near resolved in the mind of his partner. In cases like these the dominant partner usually has the final say as to whether the issue is put to rest or if it warrants further discussion.
Men and women need to understand these fundamental differences and accept them, more than that they need to stop trying to make their partners into something they just are not wired to be. That said, it is important to add that while there are differences in the way we approach relationships and communication the sexes can co-exist in an extremely blissful state if they can adjust their own individual traits to meet the needs of each other.
Sure women communicate, if you count screamiing and yelling, endless demands and threats. whining, crticizing, yeah, lots of communication. Gimmie money, that’s another favorite communication.
Women destroy realtionships. The rest is mythology.