I began writing about the 5 things that will destroy your relationship and in this post I will reveal the last two habits as a continuation of the prior post.
You’re Always Critical
Women who are always negative and critical of their man will drive them away. Men need your admiration; it is what motivates them to do more. Criticism on the other hand will raise their defenses. Sure they do things that you cannot help but point out but do you also point out the positive things that they do?
Come up with a plan to highlight the positive things that your partner does and follow through until it becomes a natural thing for you to do. Once you do this you can gently encourage him to meet your needs by pointing out small things he can do for you and praise him for doing so.
You’re Unresponsive in bed
Men need to be sexually fulfilled and part of that fulfillment is having you fulfilled. If you have not joined your partner in the sexual experience for him it might as well not have happened. Find ways to be as inviting and as much a part of the experience as your partner even if it means communicating some things to him before the act. If you like to be touched a certain way, let him know. It will increase the enjoyment for the both of you.
There you have it, five things that you are probably doing right now that is probably driving your man into the arms of another woman. If you identify with any of these points, sit yourself down and take an objective look at yourself. Make a list of things that you can do to counteract these habits and prepare for an open discussion with your partner. Soon, you’ll be on your way to a more positive you and hopefully a much stronger relationship.
